No shame in that — it’s natural for relationships to change your life's dynamics a bit. But now, the newly single you has the chance to get back to your old routine, get centered and reconnect.
Ultimately, this screams bad news for your new girl.
Relationships, no matter how long or short they may have been, take a piece of you with them when they go.
You just spent however long pouring your heart into another, allowing your significant other to consume your every waking thought, and ultimately, granting him or her control of your full range of emotions. If you make up with your ex, prepare for your rebound be upset, as she has every right to be.
Not only is this annoying (see 10), but it can also create the illusion that you are just straight-up avoiding your friends. So, let’s say that number 10 is incorrect, and everyone outside of the relationship doesn’t instantly catch on to the obvious rebound.
Some may call this a successful transition, but the new girl's friends won’t.